adored.

he simply adores me.

I've never been treated with so much admiration... love.. gentleness.. It's almost scary.. straight out of a movie..
this kind of thing REALLY EXISTS?!
Are you kidding me?!

So we're official.. mr. surprise and i.. LOL.
Oh the surprise.
We've been seeing each other often..
and really.. the surprises are never ending...
I'm flattered. baffled. astonished... and most of all..

speechless

I can't believe how things have been happening! I've been itching to tell you guys.. everything..
cause honestly I now really believe that there ARE guys just like.. straight out of the movies.. guys that dooooooooooooooo do all the fairytale like things.. and... most of all.. that USSSSSSSS girls.. that have never experienced anything like this.. CANNN and WILL experience it one day.. you just have to be patient.. and in the mean while.. do your thing..

it'll happen when you least expect it.

Ok so let's back up!!!!!!!!!!!!! =]
Our first date.. he took me to the river to start the night with a nice evening walk... :] then for dinner we head to a local korean restaurant that i never knew existed. I'd been complaining about my koreannnnnn cravings quiet oftenly. So we have dinner... have some sake.. then we leave the place.. and he takes me to Friendlys. My first time BTW! =]. So we go there.. get some ice cream.. he opens the trunk to his SUV and we tailgate in the parking lot.. lol we literally sat there for like.. 2 hours.. my feet dangling and all.. on a full moon.. just talking.. and laughing.. getting to know each other.. over ice cream. LOL cute right? We end the night meeting his friends at a local irish pub. Dance a lil... laugh alot.. end our first date.

Not bad right? I mean honestly though.. I wasn't like OMGOMGOMG. It was just.. chill.. and interestingly.. i really didn't make anything of it. Now i think back.. and it was so cute..

Anyway.. so we talk throughout the week.. and we start going at it about the lakers vs. magics.. thats where we made the bet.. ahaha...

I win remember? So saturday.. he picks me up.. this is where i was wearing my kim kardashian look.. We go to the mall.. and i tell the girls at the counter what happened.. they're like.. how much or how many things can she get!? His response... let her get whatever she wants.

WHOA! :] I'm already.. smiling... and at this point.. i'm cheesing like no tomorrow... come on now.. Us girls.. MAC?!!? Can't get any better than that right?! So I end up picking the 4 things.. then he goes..
"Well we have an hour to burn before dinner.. so.. let's take you shopping"

time out!!!!!!!!!!
You shoulda seen my face.. my reaction.. Uh....
first of all.. an hour before dinner?! Where the heck are we eating to.. have to wait an hour!! And secondly.. shopping.. are you kidding me.. am i dreaming?!

LOL.
So then he takes me to every possible girl store there is.. and keeps asking me if i want anything.. I'm so nervous.. and so.. speechless.. that i can't even pick out anything. I walked around in circles.. like an idiot. LOL.

So then... we settle with the dress.. cause i try it on.. and show him.. and he just.. well.. yeah. LOL
he shook his head with such a firm yes. hahahah i couldn't pass it up.

:]
We rush back to the car.. and he takes me to this UBBBBBBBBBBBBEr cute french restaurant!! My first... white linen... type of restaurant.. Cute candle light dinner.. he had made reservations.. and ahhhhh.. it was just amazing.. we had wine.. and a phenomenal dinner.. What was crazy.. was that I could readdddddd have the items on the menu.. understand what it was andddddddd know how to make it! Insane right?!?!? What an experience. It was romantic.. and sensational..
We had a ricotta cheesecake afterwards that didn't.. impress either of us.... buttttttt everything else def. made up for it :]

After dinner we had some more wine over a movie at his friends apt. We watched "He's just not into you". Which btw i think is TOTALLY appropriate if any of you are single.. and are looking to date. LOl the movie was ridiculously realistic... and hysterical at the same time.

End date 2. :]

So over the next few days.. and what not.. is when i get sick... and he ends up taking me to target.. to not only get medicine.. but buys me a new pillow.. towels.. an iron.. more towels.. a full size body mirror.. etc.

spoiled i tell you.
and so appreciative.

I mean... i'm grateful for everything beyond.. words.. but i mean.. what gets me is how much.. he thinks about what i might need.. that he wants to do this for me.. that he does do this for me..

the act of doing it.. without ever asking.. is just.. ::sigh::

SO yeahh.. we've been going on lil mini dates very very oftenly.... we watched the proposal last night. HIlariousssssssssss.. ice cream has become a frequent of ours.. even though he doesn't enjoy it as much.. He knows though how i loveeeeeeeeeeee ice cream.. and apparently he's fascinated by how it makes me happy.. LOL.

He's growing on me so incredibly fast.. it's... just.. unrealistic.
The little things he does..

He always.. kisses my hand.. while he drives.. or even while we're watching a movie...
He always leads the way...
He always.. opens the door.. literally.. always..
He won't ever let me carry anything for the death of me...
He surprises me.. calls me at 9-10 in the morning... and shows up randomly to feed me breakfast that i havent had.. for months..
He gazes at me.. and tells me... i'm amazing.. that i'm beautiful..
He comes up behind me... while i'm shopping. and just.. towers over me..
He introduces me to his friends.. like i'm a diamond in a ruff..
He never leaves my side.. when we're out.. ever.
He stops.. eating.. during dinner.. to listen to me..
He kisses my forehead..
He tells me the truth.. of a matter.. the logics.. the harsh truth.. and has his own opinion..
He supports what i do.. and my passions..
He buys me flowers...

All of this.. in a span of a month.

What makes me smile about him..
The way he drives..
The way he carries himself..
The way he approaches people professionally... and confidently..
The way he's quiet and keeps to himself at times..
The way he's reserved..
The way he's opinionated in a matter of fact kind of way..
His unexpected sense of humor..
His willingness to do whats out of the ordinaire for me..
His ability to hold a intellectual conversation..
His respect for his mom..
The way he's so extremely responsible..

:sigh:
I can go on and on..

but i'm getting sleepy.. lol.
So i'll tell you guys more later..
Cause everyday is another day of getting to know him..
and i'm overwhelmed by how much i'm already experiencing.

BUTTTTTTTT i'm excited.. cause he has a surprise weekend trip planned for us THISSSS coming weekend!!! :] 4 more days!!
All i know.. is that it's on a beach... and he's taking me shopping..
andddddd we're stopping by Jersey cause he's taking me to k-town there...
I'm gonna ask him tomorrow if we can stop by Queens so i can have dinner with tiffany :] cause i really wantt someoneeeeeee to meet him.

He's absolutely amazing.
Oh the flowers by the way..
I got it today..
He pulled it off so slick. LOL
He came to pick me up right after class.. me stinking like the kitchen and all..
and while he's sitting in the car.. he says heyyy can you get something from the trunk for me..
So i go to the trunk and there.. :] flowers.
Slick right?!!? LOL..

Speechless.
I haven't gotten roses.. in so long.. i don't even remember when the last time was.. my graduation maybe? Or was it when i was 16.. something like that..

AHHHHHHHhhh duh.. and something as silly as tonight.. he just came to see me for a bit.. he just bought another car.. so we went out driving just to spend some time together..
We ended up driving to rhineback which is this uberrrr cute little town.. that just... looks like it's straight out of a movie.. might i remind you it's 9pm though.. We get there.. and we just... walk.. hand in hand.. with no one else on the streets except cop cars driving by once in a while.. Lamps on everywhere... little shops closed.. but this cute ice cream parlor was open... so once again he buys me ice cream.. we settle down under a lamp.. on a bench.. and talk.. about nonsense.. for an hour and a half.. laughing about wth we were doing..
a first.. :]..


K ladies! I'm off to a good night sleep.
I'll tell you some funny stories next time.

Good night!!!
OH YEAH! WAit!!

BTW. Weightloss.
I'm at 149.
HOLY SHIT RIGHT?!?!
149!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Ohhh and just a quick picture of him :] just to give you an idea.. a face i guess you can call it to the person thats... treating me like i've never been treated before..

seriously.. so speechless.




OHHHHHHHHHHH another thing BTW! -_______-;
So my facebook is complete.. I finally uploaded all 4059830495 pictures of diff. makeup looks.. add me? follow me? I'm more of a facebook addict.. rather than twitter.. i don't know why? Twitter just doesn't get me as much as facebook does :]

http://www.facebook.com/pages/Jinah-Chae/93010966879?ref=mf